Some times, i often had a feel that, why this happened to me? why am i in trouble all time? why on earth god is testing me? and i bet, most of you had the same feeling as well.
Be a believer or an atheist, you often had the same feeling that i narrated above. You see, our life is a connection of events, and these event are related to some other events that happened to you already.
The way we see the things might not be the actual way to see it, we may consider it as a bless, but in reality it could be a blow, the same could happen in vice-versa.
When i just got admitted to my college, i thought, not again, why on earth am in such a dump place?, then i realized, being in a already established system is nice, but then you can’t bring much changes to it, but if you try to implement something new, then yes, thats the very best thing.
The same happened with me in relationships also, sometimes, i used to think, oh my, why these people are in these kinda relationships? why they are putting themselves into it? i didn’t really like the idea of being in a relation, i called it infatuations , and yes, many were the same; but still, i denied the existence of pure affection; now, i just found that am wrong, as i got into one.
Thats how it is, sometimes we can’t connect the dots by looking forwards, but we can connect it once we look backwards, and once again, dots can never be connected when looking forward, it can be connected only if we look backward.
Once, we look into it, once we analyse the present situation, we will find that, there is some special purpose in our birth, definitely, there is no second chance so that we could look back and change it, but then, the one who tries to identify it by looking forward, the one who is talented enough to connect it to the very next node is verily the one, who won this challenge, the challenge of being born.