# The Fate
Fate, which is defined as “the set of things which is out of anyone’s control”, is often misunderstood by the majority, or to make things easy, let's say, misunderstood by me.
Whenever something happened to us, especially, something bad. We often think oh god, not again, why me? then your mind starts working out, it may say that was it because of your past? was it because you didn’t work hard? are you the one who has to be blamed or someone else?
When I was talking to my friend, they said to me that, something isn’t going good, it was like that before, it is like this now, and it won’t work well for them. So they decided it. it won’t work well for them. they just decided it.
What I want to say now is, yes, it may be bad for you now, and it may be bad then, but have you tried? have you tried to succeed in it? yes? ah, then you must remember the fact that hard work will pay off. you tried hard last time, you tried hard this time, and you should try hard next time as well. do you know why?
America’s greatest president Abraham Lincoln got failed in a number of elections which can’t be counted on fingers. and now, he is remembered as the greatest president of all time.
That's the beauty of life. We don’t know what's gonna happen next, we don’t know when our hard work will pay back? but the only thing we know is it will pay off, one day.
It may take time until the payoff. but the real thing is what are you going do until then? curse your fate and raise blood pressure? or keep faith in your fate? does worrying too much gonna change your fate? does it really matter? then why are you worrying? stop it and play it cool.